A HOT MESS

Why is it that women come to work looking like they just jumped out of bed and threw something on. Now don’t get me wrong I know everyday you are not going to come to work looking like you just walked off the runway, but why is it that everyday you come looking like you just woke up. As women we are suppose to give ourselves that time. Take a few minutes to put on something clean, take the time to fix your hair up and make it look neat. It doesn’t take a whole bunch of money, just a brush and some lip gloss! You don’t have to have a million dollars to look like it. Don’t come to work looking dirty and like you don’t care. A few of my coworkers come to work looking like they just stepped out of the dirty clothes basket. And they are not ugly women. But just the way they come to work looking is like who did it and why. I don’t understand it. Maybe they don’t think they look bad, or maybe they just really don’t care. Some of us women can be so much more attractive if we just take those few minutes to prep ourselves. This doesn’t even require a lot of make up, if any. just take the time to make yourself look presentable. Otherwise you will be on our hit list. And I am not one to talk bad about people but I WILL. So ladies, just take an extra few minutes in the morning or afternoon, whenever you decide to get dressed. It wont hurt it will actually help.

TORN

What do you do when you love two people??? Who do you let go of??? Do you keep it going to you get caught, or do you say I have to choose? But what if one lover is away for a while and is not a threat to you and your life with your other lover is it ok to keep the communication line open with the away lover? The away lover was in the picture first, and the love never went away, but he was taken away… Help advice……

LOVE YOURSELF 1ST

Why are woman so hard on themselves when it comes to finding the right one. It’s amazing to me how judgmental we can be, but its also amazing that woman can’t accept “It is what It is”... If you have big lips love your big lips, if you have a coota belly, love your coota belly (that’s the extra layer of fat that stops you from seeing your vagina) you just lift it up when you need to and keep it moving, and if it’s something you can fix, then fix it... If you don’t like it then why do you expect others to? I know I may sound harsh but its reality. It’s important to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to love you. I don’t understand how we as woman can love someone more than we love ourselves. When you love someone more than you love yourself you allow that person to treat you any kind of way, you also allow that person to love you less. I am in love with myself and that’s why I think so many people love me. So if you are not in love with yourself I suggest you try it, take some you time, get to know yourself your sensual side, what makes you feel great and I guarantee you will attract the right men who loves you for you, because you will not except anything less of what you can do for yourself. So put your self on a pedestal, but not so high you can’t come down to meet your prince Charming... He’s out there, but you won’t find him until you find YOU!!!

REAL TALK....

Today was a great day to wake up . I was apart of history on November 4, 2008. Barack Obama was elected the First African American President of the United States, my heart is so full right now. We have the nay sayers of course, because some people are not use to change especially when it comes in another color, but we all need to embrace what God has given us. I experienced some racism at work over my Obama T-Shirt, and that's when I realized how sick this world really is. My ancestors had to go through much more back then, so I thank God for today and this new life. I also understand that my ancestors had to endure that pain for me to appreciate this CHANGE for today. Barack Obama is our Hope for tomorrow, our Promise for today, and Heaven sent by God. I agree with his plan for us, I didn't vote for him because he is black. I voted for Barack Obama because I understand his plan for my future, and my kids future. Him being Black is a plus, him being Intelligent is a plus, him being a Democrat is a plus, him being Handsome is a plus, him being MY PRESIDENT is PRICELESS!!!

EWWW

Who in the world taught these chaps nowa days how to dance? I was at a sweet sixteen party a few weekends ago…………You might ask what is a 24 year old woman doing at a sweet sixteen party? Well I was asked to help out. but What I saw made me wanna throw up! The girls were booty poppin on the boys while the boys was standing there. I bet their little things were on SWOLE, lol. Is that what they call dancing these days. Where im from we drop it, pop it, and lock it, lol! I cant stand dancing with a guy and I feel his penis on my @$$. Unless we are about to get down, I don’t wanna feel any of his sex driven body parts on me. I just couldn’t believe that is all these kids were doing. Well that’s not all they were doing, some of them were being a little too hot in the @$$.I guess that’s what the call raging hormones. I once was 16 but I didn’t dance like that! I liked to put on a show, you watch while I break it down, and don’t you dare touch me. Ok ladies, heres the visual find a guy and make him stand behind you and hold your waist. bend forward, put your hands on your knees and make sure you got an arch in your back, and just start poppin your booty really really fast. Make sure he has your waist and is pumpin really hard! That’s gross right. Is that all they know how to do? Somebody please get them some dancing lessons…..