Thursday, November 6, 2008
TORN
What do you do when you love two people??? Who do you let go of??? Do you keep it going to you get caught, or do you say I have to choose? But what if one lover is away for a while and is not a threat to you and your life with your other lover is it ok to keep the communication line open with the away lover? The away lover was in the picture first, and the love never went away, but he was taken away… Help advice……
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hmmm this 1 does seem difficult, but eventually you will have to choose. it's like the tale of holding the hands of 2 people, and you have to let 1 go to let 1 live; ultimately you have to choose".... now depending on how deep these relationships are you may not have to choose so soon, but the longer you wait the deeper it will get, and the worse it will hurt.
Sticky!!! I think the first step is to determine what "love" you have for the two. Being "in love" and having "love" for someone is two different things.
Now the fact that you asked was it okay to keep the lines of communication open with the away lover leads me to believe that you may have been "in love" with him at some point but bcuz he's away you starting to feel distant but still feel obligated to him for whatever reason.
It’s kinda like being that "ryde or dye" type chik when your boo get locked up but while he's locked up your emotions, feelings and needs aren't, so your mind starts to wonder. You feel guilty about what you’re doing from time to time but you're getting what you've been missing. So of course, you start to open up and let dude in and next thing you know you caught up. Tough right!
I said all that to say figure out what season you're in, because it may be time for it to change. You may be supposed to be “springing forward” but you keep “falling back,” or vice versa. Whatever you decide to do just be upfront and be prepared for some discomfort.
Just my thoughts...
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